"Depression, alcohol addiction and grief"

About: Community Mental Health Services / North Community Mental Health Team

(as the patient),

I've been dealing with my mental health issues since my teens. I've been in and out of outpatient help. When my father (my biggest support/reason for staying sober) passed away in 2018, it sent me over the edge.

Everything has progressively gotten so much worse. My CPN who had supported me through all this passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. One of our 4 cats at home also passed suddenly and tragically in a car accident. She was my father's favourite, they had a special bond. I'm crying as I write this because I'm so overwhelmed constantly over the thought of death.

I am unable to understand or comprehend how my family have managed to move on and I feel anger towards them for doing it but also anger towards myself for being unable to do it. I feel lost and alone.

However, Lisa has taken time to ensure I never feel this way, to give me reassurance that I always have someone to talk to. She has been a rock for me and continues to show me that there can be people working in this field who really do understand and resonate rather than just going by a book. She is utterly amazing and I feel so lucky to have her as a support through this.

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Response from Allison McGurty, Clinical Team Manager North Angus Mental Health Mental Health, Community Mental Health Service, Angus Health & Social Care Partnership 15 months ago
Allison McGurty
Clinical Team Manager North Angus Mental Health Mental Health, Community Mental Health Service,
Angus Health & Social Care Partnership
Submitted on 25/07/2023 at 18:14
Published on Care Opinion on 26/07/2023 at 08:26


My name is Ally McGurty and I am the Team Manager if the North Angus Community Mental Health Team. I want to thank you for taking the time to share with us the sad losses and difficulties you have experienced and how the support you are receiving is helping you navigate these.

I think you should be immensely proud of the strength you have shown by sharing your story and the daily hard work you are putting in to work through these losses and feelings.

I am so heartened to hear that the person working with you is there for you, giving you hope and courage to believe in yourself and face these daily challenges.

As a service we do work hard to provide the best care we can and I do hope that you continue to work with us and I will relay your very kind and thoughtful words to your worker and the team.

Can I please wish you continued strength and courage and I hope that your journey of recovery and self belief grows stronger and be proud of what you have achieved so far.

Best Wishes

Ally McGurty

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