My 89 year old mother was diagnosed with secondary brain cancer in May and was discharged to palliative care at home one week later.
- The Trust provided carers 4 times per day and the care provided was excellent. They treated my mother with care and dignity and she enjoyed their visits. - When my sister & I visited her on Wednesday in hospital she was still mobile but when she was brought home by ambulance she was confined to bed. No explanation was provided to the family for this change and it resulted in a very difficult and stressful bank holiday weekend for the family until the care package was adjusted to reflect this. - To facilitate the discharge the hospital made promises the community could not deliver - we were assured of a level of support from Macmillan/NI Hospice that did not materialise, and promised that if care at home was too much then alternative arrangements could be made.
It took 6 weeks to get a named social worker and when they did visit they were disparaging about my sister's request for respite which added further distress. When sending an 89 year old patient home for palliative care there needs to be an acceptance that the family carers are possibly pensioners themselves and also require support to deal with the situation.
- What would have been invaluable on discharge was a list of all contacts /details of who to contact when x,y, or z happened. This would have improved the initial days immensely and surely is a QI project waiting to happen.
- The care provided by Marie Curie & NI Hospice was excellent but it was ad hoc and often last minute. We needed more - we got nothing in the final 2 weeks of my mother's life when we needed it most. Please do not raise expectations.
- The response and care provided by Dalriada OOH was excellent.
I've seen appeals on social media asking for families to work with healthcare providers to expedite discharge to help create bed space. I would like to appeal to them to work with the families so that patients and families do not feel overwhelmed & abandoned in the process.
Based on my experience I would not recommend taking a family member home.
"Palliative Care at Home"
About: Antrim Area Hospital / Ward B5 Antrim Area Hospital Ward B5 BT41 2RL Dalriada Urgent Care Dalriada Urgent Care Ballymena BT42 3GA East Antrim / Community Specialist Palliative Care Team East Antrim Community Specialist Palliative Care Team Ballymena BT43 6DA East Antrim / Home Care East Antrim East Antrim Home Care East Antrim Ballymena BT43 6DA East Antrim / Hospital Diversion Nursing Team East Antrim Hospital Diversion Nursing Team Ballymena BT43 6DA East Antrim / Social Work East Antrim Social Work Ballymena BT43 6DA
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