"My father-in-law's care"

About: Victoria Hospital / Admissions Unit 2 (Emergency Surgical) Victoria Hospital / Colorectal Unit Victoria Hospital / Medical High Dependency Victoria Hospital / Surgical High Dependency

(as a relative),

My father-in-law was recently admitted to AU2 overnight, he was admitted to SHDU where he stayed for 2 nights. I had some concerns about his stay in SHDU which I raised with the senior charge nurse who was compassionate, kind, and addressed my concerns immediately.

My father-in-law  was then transferred to MHDU, where his care was nothing short of fantastic. When we went in to visit we were greeted by a nurse at the bedside called Rinku, she talked us through the procedure he had that morning and what they found and the plan from there. She was so helpful and nothing was too much trouble. She was kind, caring and compassionate and always worked with a smile.

A couple of days later we were given some devastating news about his condition by one of the doctors and a staff nurse named Eileen, they explained everything in detail and told us what to expect and what to do from here. Once again nothing was too much trouble for them and Eileen in particular went out of her way to make him comfortable.

His care was taken over from there by Dr Jafferbhoy, who is by far one of the best doctors I have ever experienced. To say he went above and beyond was no exaggeration, not only for my father-in-law but for us as well. He took time to speak to us and kept us in the loop with every improvement and decline in his condition. He took time to chat with my father-in-law, not only about his condition but just general chat, which was extremely comforting to him. I really don’t think any of us would have stayed sane if it wasn’t for him.

He was moved down to ward 44 to be under Dr Jafferbhoy's care, where we met another fantastic staff nurse, Bob. He was so kind, knowledgeable and his attitude in general was so positive. The staff in 44 are all fantastic, they are constantly on the move and yet somehow always had time for my father-in-law whatever he needed. Unfortunately he suffered a large bleed whilst in 44 and passed away, however the staff ensured he was comfortable and peaceful as he passed away. They let us stay for as long as we needed after he passed to be with him and one of the nurses working nightshift, whose name I unfortunately cannot remember, answered all of our questions and made sure we we had all we needed.

My one point about ward 44 is that communication between staff could be improved. Whilst we were at my father-in-law's bedside in his final hours a staff member came in and asked us if he wanted anything for supper, they were completely unaware that he was unconscious and hours from death. Whilst this was not their fault, and they were extremely apologetic afterwards, I feel this is a point that could be addressed to avoid any extra distress in a situation like this in future.

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Response from Siobhan Mcilroy, Head Patient Experience, Corporate Services, NHS Fife last month
Siobhan Mcilroy
Head Patient Experience, Corporate Services,
NHS Fife
Submitted on 23/08/2024 at 11:34
Published on Care Opinion at 11:34


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My name is Siobhan McIlroy, and I am the Head of Patient Experience. We welcome all feedback, so thank you for taking the time to post your story on Care Opinion. Your insights are incredibly valuable, and we sincerely appreciate your effort in helping us understand your experience better. Through feedback like yours, we can continue to improve and provide the highest quality care to all our patients, learning from what went well and what could have gone better.

Care Opinion is a fantastic platform that allows us to learn from various experiences and make meaningful changes where needed. Your story contributes to our ongoing improvement and helps other patients who might benefit from hearing about your journey.

I wish to offer my condolences to you and your family. I am sorry you experienced communication issues in Ward 44. This must have been upsetting for your all at an already difficult and distressing time. I am pleased that you were offered an apology and I am sure staff would have been very disappointed to have made this comment.

I am pleased and when you highlighted issues to the Senior Charge Nurse in SHDU you found her to be compassionate and your concerns were quickly acknowledged, listened to and acted upon.

Its reassuring to hear that your father-in-law was well looked after and cared for and that you were kept up to date regarding his condition. I am sure the staff will be absolutely delighted that they were able to support and comfort you all during such a sad and difficult time.

I would love to hear more about your experience in greater detail, but appreciate this might not be the right time. Please contact me directly if you feel up to it and if you wish to discuss your story further. We can explore how we can use your insights for even wider learning and sharing across our services. You can email me at Siobhan.mcilroy@nhs.scot and provide me with your contact details. Your voice truly matters, and we're here to listen.

Thank you again for sharing, Siobhan.

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Response from Jennifer Louden, Senior Charge Nurse, Ward 44 Colorectal surgery and Gastroenterology, NHS Fife last month
Jennifer Louden
Senior Charge Nurse, Ward 44 Colorectal surgery and Gastroenterology,
NHS Fife
Submitted on 23/08/2024 at 14:39
Published on Care Opinion at 14:43


Dear Mh01,

Firstly I would like to to offer my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your Father in Law.

I am pleased to read that you and your family felt your Father in Law was well cared for by the team in ward 44, particularly during his final hours. I hope that it brings you and your family some comfort knowing that he was comfortable and that you were able to be with him.

I am very sorry to hear that you experienced some communication issues during this time, I am reassured that the staff involved offered an apology for this. This is something that I will discuss with the team to ensure that this is not repeated for any future patients.

I would be happy to discuss this with you further if you wish. I can be contacted via email jennifer.louden@nhs.scot or by phoning ward 44 on 01592 729444.

Kindest Regards

Jennifer

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