"Coil removal at the sexual health clinic"

About: Fife Community Services / Sexual Health Victoria Hospital / Gynaecology

(as the patient),

I had a coil fitted in July , which I was persuaded to have, I did not want it fitted at all, under duress I was persuaded to sign the consent form, without any consultation or proper explanation as to why it was being fitted, or offered any alternative to it.

Afterwards, I complained then tried to arrange to have it removed in September, the only place I could have it removed was The Sexual Health Clinic, Kirkcaldy. As the consultant had cut the strings so short, they had curled right up and the practitioner was unable to reach them to remove the coil they had to get a colleague.

The next part I had to endure I can only describe as feeling like human torture. There has to be a fine line between doing your job and allowing a patient to suffer unnecessarily, I feel. Bearing in mind this person is inside my body, way up inside my body, and at some point I am screaming, oh my god you have to stop what you are doing, as the pain was excruciating, my  toes were curled with the pain , I was visibly crying and upset - for this person to be annoyed with me, saying if you want this out today, you have to let me do this! I have one more tool to try - I mean what is this, a mechanic trying to remove a stubborn screw? This person was inside my body. I've never felt such pain.

Eventually they did catch hold of the strings and it came out, they asked if I wanted to see it, I said no not really, and they proceeded to stick it in front of my face for me to see. No apology, no kind words, just turned on their heel and left the room. I've never felt so violated. There has to be at least a level of care , even in a clinic, where patient comfort has to be a priority and distress to the minimum.

I have had a coil before and know how smoothly and pain free this should have been. I also know if I had left it in for the 5 years , this would have been worse. The consultant had obviously cut the strings way too short. I wish I had never agreed to go for the procedure then I would not have had to endure the suffering of having the coil removed. All in all I am disgusted with the lack of care or empathy I have received through the whole ordeal.

 It will put me off going again

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Response from Kirsty Durham, Senior Charge Nurse, Sexual Health, Fife Health & Social Care Partnership 4 years ago
Kirsty Durham
Senior Charge Nurse, Sexual Health,
Fife Health & Social Care Partnership
Submitted on 15/10/2020 at 15:02
Published on Care Opinion at 15:51


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Dear TOO OLD FOR THIS, thank you for taking the time to tell us about what has clearly been a very distressing experience for you. I am sorry to hear that your coil removal procedure was not as smooth and pain free as your previous experience and has caused you to suffer in the manner which you describe. I am saddened to hear that you did not feel that you were treated with empathy and kindness by our staff and that you were left feeling violated. I have shared your feedback with the staff involved who are also sorry and saddened to hear it.

It is understandable, though disappointing, that this has put you off attending our service in future. If you would like the opportunity to discuss this further please contact me directly on 01592 729275.

Kirsty Durham, Sexual Health Senior Charge Nurse

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Update posted by TOO OLD FOR THIS (the patient)

I appreciate your kind words, its an uncomfortable and unpleasant procedure for any woman to have done, a little compassion and freedom to be in control to make informed decisions would be the best, I feel. At no time was I asked if I was ok to let them try again, or if I was feeling ok, or if it was too painful or uncomfortable to continue. The choice was made for me, I was genuinely in pain, embarassed and it was an unpleasant experience that will stay with me for a long time. I just thought if it had been someone I know or a family member that had this done to them, I would be horrified. Also the trainee girl advised me to take medication (ibruprofen) I stated I have asthma and could not take it, she said it would be ok short term. I think this was a careless thing to say as I am also on other medications which could interact badly with ibruprofen.

Response from Kirsty Durham, Senior Charge Nurse, Sexual Health, Fife Health & Social Care Partnership 4 years ago
Kirsty Durham
Senior Charge Nurse, Sexual Health,
Fife Health & Social Care Partnership
Submitted on 16/10/2020 at 17:55
Published on Care Opinion on 19/10/2020 at 12:06


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Dear TOO OLD FOR THIS, I would value the opportunity to speak with you so that I can fully understand your experience at Sexual Health. Please consider contacting me direct on 01592 729275.

Many thanks, Kirsty Durham, Sexual Health Senior Charge Nurse

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